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Relationship Architectural Process

Recipe

Equipment
  • Personality
  • Traits
  • Beliefs
  • Culture
  • Worldview
  • Upbringing
  • Life Experiences
  • Religion
  • Values System
  • Education
Ingredients
  • Honesty
  • Love
  • Relationship
  • Mindfulness
  • Honor and respect
  • Communication
  • Intimacy
  • Sexuality
  • Trust
  • Connection
  • Conflict Management
Envision– Plan – Navigate

The bulletproof Step by Step proven guide to blissful solid everlasting relationship

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Phase 1 – Why
Your vision of Marriage’s purpose will determine your creation’s quality. Your beliefs and worldview will manifest in your experience.

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Phase 2 – Who
Brutal honest Self-assessment and mastering the art of an observer are the crucial keys to creating a fit.

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Phase 3 – What
Creating a “Business Plan” to eliminate expectations and shift your Marriage into life-long peaceful & honorable agreements.

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Phase 4 – How
Own your powerful toolbox and equip yourself with skills to shift your dreams into reality.

Phase 1 – Why
Being clear on the purpose of your game and the meaning of your desired goal will pave the road to a successful reality. Your vision is the root cause of your creation. In our process, we get deep-rooted to define the distinction of Marriage so we can build the road map to experience the glory and the joy of everlasting love, connection, honor, and deep soul-level bond.

Phase 2 – Who
Who you are in your state of being: traits, personality, culture, childhood, past experiences, belief system, upbringing, and more…will determine how you play the game of your life. In this phase, we look at the mirror in the most brutally honest and straightforward way to become aware of the way we play the game of life. We also learn the art of knowing what you need and how to get to know the REAL person you are dating judgment-free. Real connection is achievable only between 2 “mask-off” REAL people.

Phase 3 – What
Creating a Marriage BUSINESS PLAN! Let’s keep it simple. Marriage is a space where two people choose to live together. Life means habits, beliefs, world views, desires, dreams, aspirations, lifestyles, and more. Marriage is a partnership between 2 individuals who had a life before and now wish to share, adapt and welcome a new BEING into their lives. In this phase, we learn the ART of shifting from Expectations to an agreement and becoming free of assumptions. We master the art of communication in creating a life-together plan despite differences in personalities, world views, habits, and life dreams. We celebrate the “personality differences” and take advantage of the rare opportunity to enrich our horizons with new infinite possibilities.

Phase 4 – How
In this phase, we equip you with essential and practical tools, skills, distinctions, and clear definitions and meanings. You will be trained to develop the practices and achieve desired results. Be the master of using trust, communication, love, connection, intimacy, honor and respect, security, mindfulness, accountability, and more. Own them, use them, and make them serve your life goals and dreams.

With this recipe incorporated into your life, you will be equipped to flourish in your family life like never before.
Here is our promise…
It’s exciting. It works. It’s easy.
Our recipe has proven successful in helping thousands of couples build their dream relationship.

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My husband and I work in different fields that can often cause issues for married couples. I am an actress and my husband is a surgeon. Rabbi Toledano’s “Marriage By Design” was the answer to our relationship and his coaching was an ongoing source of encouragement when bringing our lives together in marriage. We both knew what we wanted with personal career goals and sometimes it can seem great while you're dating, but things can change after marriage because either one or both people had expectations they didn’t make known or perhaps they talked about it but the other spouse figured they would eventually change their mind or vice versa. That way of thinking often leads to unhappy marriages and maybe even divorce. My husband and I wanted to be in this together and understand each other wholly. Rabbi Toledano taught us how to dig deep into ourselves and overcome the fear of rejection when saying what we need and want. We learned how to be free with each other so that we could build a lasting marriage, friendship, and family. His teachings are never forgotten and are practical for use in many areas of life. David is truly an invaluable soul!
Ilana Guralnik
Movie Actress
Initially I learned about Rabbi Toledano through my work with a television production company and sought out to work with him by showcasing his talent as a “Rescue Rabbi” because that was how he had been categorized. I was engaged at the time to my current husband and hadn’t entertained the idea of pre-marriage counseling, but when Rabbi Toledano asked if we would be interested it seemed intriguing. During our sessions, David coached us on the importance, and value, of expectations and communications. We all know those two things are important but it’s how we convey our expectations and seek to communicate those, among other things, effectively that makes a huge difference. We still actively discuss the lessons learned from David even after years of marriage and having children because we didn’t learn how to communicate more effectively for short-term fixes. The information learned is for long-term solutions. I can’t expect for my husband to do something that would be meaningful to me if I never talk about it with him. He is very honest and forces you to be honest with yourself and what you are looking for. One thing that stood out to both my husband and I was the Rabbi’s question, ‘What does your plate look like that you are bringing to this table?’ The table of course being marriage and marriage to this person is a choice. In comparison to other life coaches I’ve found that most of them want for you to think more broad-spectrum whereas with Rabbi Toledano it is more granular and builds towards the broad context of things because the real work is done pre-marriage in order to create a solid, lasting foundation with yourself and for the person you are choosing to be in a marriage with. Another thing I want to emphasize is that you do not need to be Jewish, or of any faith for that matter, to experience Rabbi Toledano’s amazing work because he transcends faith that is not bound by religious or spiritual beliefs. Some people might be concerned that they will not benefit from his work if they are not Jewish or religious or that they will feel forced into speaking about religion and that just isn’t the case at all. His coaching can help anyone to create a happy home life and having that is a launchpad for other things in our life like having children, and even with career and work environment. We’re just people trying to help each other get through life, and marriage is a huge step. It’s so important to have someone with so much knowledge and experience with their own marriage to help aid others and Rabbi Toledano is that person!
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